Thursday, March 02, 2006

friends

Today, in chem, i didn't have anything important to do, as we were working or something dumb. I know that sounds wrong, but its chem!!! And what i was thinking has a lot more weight then a chem class.

Today, i was looking back. Or, retrospecting (english term word....). Over the years, the trends/fads, memories and friends. And through out all this looking back and memories and such, something kept comming about. Friends. This of course brought along a flood of thoughts:

What exactly are friends? according to dictionary.com, friends are :
A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts.
A person whom one knows; an acquaintance.
A person with whom one is allied in a struggle or cause; a comrade.
One who supports, sympathizes with, or patronizes a group, cause, or movement: friends of the clean air movement.
Friend A member of the Society of Friends; a Quaker.


WHat about loyality then? What about love? Or , not a comrade, but a partner?

Which starts awhole new bout of questions.

Friends, to me, are special. And i can easily list the qualities i look for in them (and in no particular order):
1) a sense of humer
2) a heart
3) someone who doesn't change with every new fad
4) someone who you can trust
5) someone who doesn't tell secrets, no matter how small they are
6) someone i'm comfortable around
7) someone who i can lean on when i need to
8) someone who isn't weak
9) someone who will stand beside me, and catch me when i fall

not really too much, but alot of people can't achieve 5 of these items, let alone all nine. But those who have are my good friends. THrough thick and thin, they've been there for me to lean on. And they lean on me. Sometimes people get tempted to walk away, to turn into something their not just to say that they did. But luckily, i know those who dont have to change to be great. They already are.

i frankly dont know if anyof them still read my blog, or have ever visted it, but if they have, and are reading this right now, i have something to say:

Please never change from the wonder that is you. PLease keep your good heart, your love and secrets strong, and never be afraid to lean on me. I promise you, that if you need me, no matter what, i'll be helping in every way that i possibly can. For you, no scarfice is too great, if thats what truly is required of me for something dear to you. If you need to talk, call. If you need to listen, or revenge, or just a hug or inspiring words or faith, i'm here for you. Now until the end, when ever that may come.

so, yah, friends are what keep me going, in this life filled with turmoil. But hand in hand with distruction walks beauty. Something to never be forgotten but so often is.

2 Comments:

Blogger MistWeaver said...

Am I a friend? Sometimes I wonder... About me, not about you. I know that you're about the most loyal friend a person can have. Man, it must be three am because saying that makes me cry. Yup. 3:03. Love you.

2:04 AM  
Blogger dragon's voice said...

i'm not so sure about myself. I let you down, after all. And theres no number of times when someones needed me, and i didn't know or respond.

damn, its not even one pm here and i'm crying....

love ya too babe

11:28 AM  

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